It is going to happen one day....

One day I am going to marry a good girl who may not be like me but who would be sensitive enough and who would try to understand my interests and feelings.

And I am certain about it.

Positivism is the most important thing for success. It seems as if we can do nothing if things are not going fine in our lives. But that is not true. A lot is in our own hands. It is very true that we can ourselves attract success, love and happiness into our lives. All is required a strong will and a positive attitude towards things. The attitude of not giving up, and fighting till the end gives a lot of hope and that has worked wonders in my life and I am sure to overcome and deal with all the coming difficulties in my life with it.

I see many people feeling a lot helpless about things in their life; I can understand that it would really feel bad being in their situation but that is when we should not give up hope and keep fighting.

It's when things seem worst that we should not give up.

KALPANA CHAWLA INSTITUTE OF SPACE SCIENCE

KCISS in short.. would be the name of the space science institute or center that I would like to establish in future... I am going to try my best to fulfill this dream.... (or KCSRI, Guwahati (Kalpana Chawla Space Research Institute).

Motivating as well as demotivating situations as well as persons come most unexpectedly in our day to day lives. So we need to keep a constant vigil to accept the motivating ones and thoroughly reject the demotivating ones which cost out enthusiasm and energy.

I am going to maintain a high level of motivation while working in the field of Compact Objects.

The book "Extreme Environment Astrophysics" by Ulrich Kolb that I got from the institute library is  really good and I feel motivated going through it. 

If I am to motivate others as well as keep myself motivated, I need to be truthful to myself, and to others as well. Making false promises would ruin everything in future. Better to be plain and keep my point of view showing the pros and cons and yet trying to show the gains to be attained. There may be limitations but the interest should rule and I can do my best and leave the rest on time.

Although the urge to learn new things, teach and do new things should be the prime motivation for work, but recognition and praise at regular intervals are also of prime importance to keep the motivation level high. 

Doing good research is an art, there are the tricks and roads that shall be opened to you as you move along. Be with the experienced researchers, see them work, how they do research, the roads you have to recognize or you have to find new ways,...hence success in research is just a matter of constant learning and enriching,...learning from the mistakes,...finding out ways that lead to our goal and to recognize the ways that don't. So keep trying, keep failing and keep succeeding.....