Keep smiling always

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

You want to remain humble, that’s all right. But that does not mean that you should be sad always. Be cheerful. You are afraid that you would get weak if you smile. You think that now its moment of joy so I am smiling but to maintain the equanimity perhaps I should not smile such that when its the turn of sorrows I can still maintain the balance. But see it the other way. You smile when it’s the time of joy and feel that you find strength and give others strength too to face the tough moments too with the smile in your face. Is that not also the maintenance of equanimity? Someone might say that I am going on the wrong path but in times of crisis when we shall maintain our strength then we can prove how pure the relationship is.

So to be humble and to maintain equanimity it is not necessary to be sad but instead necessary to face all joys and sorrows with equal courage and smile.

Unto you, Mother Nature

Monday, February 19, 2007

Mother Nature, we leave ourselves unto you. Guide us through. In you lap we are secure. Keep your blessings upon us. Your love and care is our only strength in times of strife.

I know not always what's right but incase you are with us we would not be wrong.

Relationships:

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

To be able to make a relationship is indeed a matter of pride as it does take honesty, tact and skill. However the more challenging task is perhaps its maintenance. It is the maintenance of relationship that tests the real mettle of the two partners. All the humanly qualities have to come to the fore for maintaining a long lasting relationship. Acceptance, honesty, tact and sincere devotion are the key factors that the two partners should possess for maintaining the bond between them.
And let’s see how far am I successful in maintaining the relationship about which I feel so strongly about.

The road is not rosy. It’s not an easy path in which each one of us has to keep taking our steps forward. But did I ever expect an easy path? After all what’s the adventure and satisfaction in a job that’s not challenging? She did what she felt was right. And I too must help her to prove that she was not wrong. Be strong, be patient and walk on.

This is also the part of the same journey and it would also require the same devotion, patience, courage and tact with which you have been carrying on till now.

John and Lisa

It’s unwise for an unmarried boy and a girl to give themselves their body before marriage; but that should not stop them from giving themselves their mental support and to enjoy working together. Throughout the day they can work together, share light moments and at the end of the day John can say to Lisa,” Good bye Lisa. We did a lot of work today. Take care and get home early. Give me a call back after you reach.” Lisa-“You too don’t roam about and get home early. Bye.”

They needn’t be shy of the world for being together although it’s true they should keep restraint.

Enthusiasm, Excitement and Coolness

A person should be reasonably cool as well as reasonably excited –because that’s what makes the balance. It’s true that nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm and excitement- writing this line it dawns upon me that perhaps I should not mistake enthusiasm for excitement. Is excitement a sign of weak personality? Perhaps enthusiasm and to remain energetic is what I should aim at rather that to concentrate upon remaining excited always. Coolness has also its own importance. It’s true that those persons who in a strange way maintain their so called ‘coolness’ even when situations demand them to be enthusiastic do trouble me a lot; but perhaps I should also not forget the importance of being cool when situations demand me to be so. So its reasonable excitement and reasonable coolness that’s what’s required and perhaps I should try to remain enthusiastic and not excited always.